I dont understand why yall hate spoiled kids!!!!!

I don't understand why people think that you are spoiled if your parents help out.  What's wrong with that? We all need help. If I had kids I'd help them out. I've gotten the side-eye from people when they hear about my parents helping me out. I don't get it. I still work and take great care of myself. It's not like I do nothing and they do everything. I don't ask them for much. I like to think that I'm a responsible adult. 

Meanwhile in other communities, parents are setting up trust funds for their children. Grandparents are giving homes to grandkids. We look at that and think its great but still frown upon our own parents trying to help us in our community. I don't get it.

Don't get me wrong. We all gotta grow up one day and be able to stand on our own two feet.  But it takes a village to not only raise a child, but to also create an adult. 

Spoiled is such an ugly word. It makes me feel like Im a fruit that's gone bad or some out dated milk.

I ain't spoiled.